Verbal abuse?

I think that you have to have honesty and trust and if that is not there no matter the reason nothing is worth it, people do all kinds of things to one another and sometimes it is good and sometimes it is really bad, just figure that you need to give her a break and give her a chance to make that choice, do you think that she knows that you are bi? do you think that she knows that you didn't mean it? you need to be honest with her and tell her the truth and then give her time and maybe depending on the situation if others know or not like mutual friends and what have you then you may need to give her a public apology? or you may not really give a damn and you may just want to move on? only you can answer these questions, I just want the 2 points here, happy first day of the year